A long exhale

Church Hurt

If a place that promised to be home stopped feeling like home, your grief is not a tantrum. It is faithfulness. You trusted them with the most tender part of you and something was mishandled.

Here, we name it plainly. We do not rush the healing. We do not ask you to forgive on a deadline. We separate Jesus from the people who misused his name. Both of those people deserve to be seen clearly.

Church Hurt

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Questions worth carrying

  • What did the church promise me that it didn't keep?
  • Where in my body do I still carry it?
  • Who is the version of God I was given — and is it actually him?
  • What would it look like to come home slowly?

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